
Arranging a Baptist funeral
If you or a family member wants a Baptist funeral, make this a funeral wish which you have agreed with your loved ones and executor. More
Paul trained as a copywriter and journalist at the Reader’s Digest before working for a number of publications, including The Director Magazine, the monthly publication of the IoD which he edited for two years.
He then moved into PR and media management, working for Westminster City Council, the Local Government Training Board and then appointed as Director of Communications at the National Lottery Charities Board (now the Big Lottery Fund). Following a period of freelance consultancy work, he launched the website My Last Song in 2006. As well as advising on secular and religious music and readings for funerals, wakes and celebrations, it covered age related illness, probate and financial issues for the older demographic.
Now semi-retired on the North Norfolk coast, Paul is a contributing editor to Final Choices, using his wealth of experience as a copywriter and expert on the increasingly complex lifestyle issues concerning those entering the autumn of their years.
If you or a family member wants a Baptist funeral, make this a funeral wish which you have agreed with your loved ones and executor. More
The shock of a terminal diagnosis can have a huge emotional impact on your loved ones. Paul Hensby looks at how best you can help them come to terms with your prognosis. More
Assisted dying. Paul Hensby argues that people living with terminal illness must have a choice over their end of life care and also the legal right, if required, to an assisted death. More
Fear of dying is reduced if we know the facts, plan for the inevitable, involve our loved ones and try to have a ‘good death’. This piece acknowledges the importance of knowing how cancer kills...More
After a cremation, what do you do with the ashes? Families are finding ever-more creative ways to celebrate end of life from birdbaths to fireworks. More
The death of a pet can be used in a positive way which will help young children understand the issues around death and involve them in suitable memorials. More
The cost of dying has risen by more than eight percent in a single year. Paul Hensby questions can you really afford not to plan your funeral in advance? More
The country was deeply saddened at the drowning of five young Tamils at Camber Sands last month. The tragedy highlighted the continued importance of faith-based funerals in the UK. More
A direct cremation is considered the cheapest form of funeral but cost is not its only advantage. As Paul Hensby explains simplifying your funeral can give you and your family the time and money to...More
After the death of a relative or friend abroad you will have many questions to find answers to. What should I do now? How can I communicate with people in a foreign language? Who can I turn to for...More
Gene Wilder, who has died aged 83, was a complex and admirable man, who like many gifted comedians, had his own well-hidden demons. More
New 'dementia atlas' highlights areas with low quality services and patient care but fails to suggest solutions. More
A prepaid funeral plan can help protect your family from the unexpected cost and distress of arranging an 'at need' funeral. We take a look at why it is a product we should all...More
Delay the ageing process, and feel better, by doing more exercise. More
The shock and grief of the sudden, unexpected death of a loved one can leave you and your family bewildered, confused and in need of emotional support. Here is a list of useful bereavement...More
Angina and heart disease become more common as we age. This advice can help you spot 'heart trouble' early. More
Older expats living in warmer European countries will eventually be affected by the vote to leave the EU... More
A majority of adults still haven't made a Will! Here are the stats... More
A death plan allows you to relieve the burden of decision making from the shoulders of those you love and creates the opportunity for a peaceful end of life. More
Should we have the right to make the decision on assisted dying when the time comes? More
Paul Hensby takes a lighthearted look at the contents of a Will ... and how you can have the last laugh on circling relatives. More
Choosing a care home is huge step and you need to be sure your parent or partner will be comfortable, happy and well looked after. But where do you start? This check list of questions will help...More
Older people who develop diabetes may go untreated due to other age-related ailments. Read this guide if you think a relative has developed the condition. More
Hospice care can be an end of life service allowing terminally ill patients to die without pain or suffering, but deciding when it is needed can be a painful decision for families More
Who will care for your pets once you are gone or too infirm? Make sure the wellbeing of your beloved pooch or cat is secured before it becomes an issue More
A look at the causes and symptoms of heat exhaustion and heatstroke, and how to treat and prevent it. Older people are particularly susceptible during hot weather, so this is useful advice for...More
Mental health issues among our rapidly growing older population are reaching crisis proportions, but as is the case with many problems affecting the elderly, they are not being properly addressed. More
Bereaved families can face a bill for thousands of pounds as a result of this hurtful and unfair 28-day notice period. More
Congregationalists believe in a spiritual life after death so, although funerals are a sad occasion for family and friends, there is thanksgiving for a person’s life and hope for their continued...More
The Letter of wishes complements your Will and enables you to list who gets those items of limited financial worth but of great sentimental value. More
You will save time and money by preparing a useful list of information to discuss with your solicitor or will writer when you decide to make your will. More
Approximately 67 per cent of people in this country gave money to charitable causes in 2015*, only seven per cent leave money to charity as a legacy in their Will. So here are reasons to leave...More
As we grow older many of us want to continue an active, satisfying sex life. But age can sometimes complicate things. More
Reactions of sorrow, confusion and feeling helpless are common when faced with the death of a loved one. More
It is possible to arrange a funeral for a pet with as much dignity and sensitivity as we give to our human loved ones. More
Why should only the famous or infamous have obituaries? More
Do religious hymns remain relevant to people in grief or are they just an accepted feature of church-based funerals? The Reverend Canon Peter Moger, Precentor, York Minster answers. More